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The Most Important Relationship of your Life and the One you Must Care and Dedicate Yourself Most to is Your Relationship with Your Self. With You. You Must Love and Adore Yourself.

 

It’s OK if you aren’t Quite There Yet - or if you Sometimes Are, sometimes Aren’t. That is Often My Case. But it Is Important that You Decide that That Is Where You Are Moving Towards. That is How You Want To Feel About Yourself.

 

You Must First Want To Love and Adore Yourself. Then You need To Try Every Day, Every Time You Remember or Every Time you catch yourself Not loving yourself.

 

Don’t Beat Yourself Up About it! Turn it Around, into a Joke or some sort of Giggles. Make a Habit of Looking for Reasons To Love & Adore Yourself. Dwell in Those Moments When You Find Yourself In Love with Yourself or Your Life.

 

Notice the Difference in Your Life between when you Choose to be OK with You No Matter What and when you Let Yourself look for reasons to criticize yourself. Life Is So Much Better When You Choose to Make a Habit of Loving and Appreciating Yourself.

 

You Will Never Please Everybody but if you Make it Your Business You Can Most Definitely Please Yourself. So Please Yourself First. Always.

 

That Doesn’t mean you have to be a Butthole to Anybody. That Doesn’t Mean you have to be Inconsiderate or Rude. You will be Surprised at How Easy it is to get Your Way and make it a Pleasure for Everyone Involved.

 

After all, now that You have Decided to Love and Adore Yourself Unconditionally it is Important to Act in a Way that would be motive of your own Admiration.

 

Often we are afraid that Pleasing Ourselves will mean Fucking Over Everyone Else. It is a Huge Liberation to Realize this is Not true, but you Can Only Find Out One Way. Try it, Live it.

 

You Only Have Your Perspective. That’s All Any of Us Ever Has. we are Selfish Beings by Nature, we can Only See Through Our Own Eyes. It’s All Good, there’s nothing wrong about it, it’s just The Way It Is. There’s A Reason for it: You are Here to Live for You.

 

You Always Know What You Need, you could say you are Designed To. even when You Don’t Think you do. Sometimes you just need to Take a Step Back. Look at your Life from a Distance. Look at Yourself from the Third Person Perspective. Look at Your Life as a Story. Figure Out What It Is Telling You. You Can Always Figure it Out. Only You Can Know. Your Life and Experience are Speaking to You. and They are Only For You to Figure Out. Listen to Others but Don’t Ever Forget That.

 

You Are the Center and Creator of Your Life. You are The Reason behind It.The Truth is that In Your Life Everything Does Really Revolve Around You, and if It Feels like It Doesn’t - It’s Time You Do Some Catching Up With Yourself. You Have a Life To Live for Yourself! There is Always Responsabilities but they are Not the Reason you Feel the Focus Isn’t On You. After All, You are in Control of the Focus. You are the Focus.

 

Whatever is Going On in Your Life Realize It is All about You. Sometimes we Think it is Easier to Make it About Other People. About Other Things. It is just a way of Distracting Yourself from what is Really Going On. What is Always Going On is You and how You Feel About Yourself and Your Life. Allowing Yourself the Time and Space to See these things will Open Your Eyes Up to New Solutions, to Better Feelings and a Happier You.

 

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·Peace, Love & Stardust·